As a former elementary school teacher, and now a homeschooling mom of two boys, I have always loved the idea of fall – cooler weather, pumpkin spice everything, a landscape dotted in lovely yellows, oranges, and reds………
But then, the reality of the season hits, and it’s a looooooong stretch of 5 day weeks – without any holiday breaks between Labor Day and Veteran’s Day. Now, I have heard rumors about some schools getting Columbus Day off – or even a short fall break – but in all the schools that I’ve worked, it’s just one long push from the beginning of September until mid November.
On top of this is the fact that (here in the states), fall is the beginning of the new school year. And while there’s always an excitement and energy for the beginning of the year, it also means that much of your time is spent not only on teaching your material, but also “training” your kiddos for the year.
So when there’s not a single break in sight, your to-do list seems to be growing by the minute, and your kiddos just can’t seem to remember what you told them two minutes ago, it can leave you feeling like you are constantly “living tired.” Have you been there?
Now, I don’t know about you, but when I hit these seasons, I have a tendency to want to just dig my heels in, push through it, and assume that I will get to rest when the season has passed. After all, if I don’t do it, it’s just not going to get done – and that’s just not acceptable, right? (sarcasm intended).
However, I have learned there are two major problems with this approach.
#1 – When I “dig in,” I begin to focus on all of the things I need to do – the tasks, the calls, the chores, the errands, the paperwork, etc. I become so fixated on what I’ve got on my plate, I can become oblivious to anything else. And sadly, my gaze shifts from my Heavenly Father downward to the things of this world.
#2 – Even when this season passes, there are going to be new things that fill up your schedule. Just stop for a moment to think. Once we hit Veteran’s Day – yes, you get a day – but Thanksgiving is right around the corner. And then, the whirlwind of the holiday season is upon us. Most likely, even your Christmas break will be filled with a flurry of activities, commitments, and travel.
So, if digging in and pushing though is not a legitimate option, what can we do? Let’s consider an alternative. Rather than dig in and try to do it all in our own strength, let’s stop, and SOAK IN His presence.
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” – Matthew 11:28-30
I have been weary. I have been burdened. I have yearned for rest. And His solution is simple: “Come to me, learn from me.”
So, may I encourage you to set aside the laundry, the papers, the cleaning, the lesson planning, and all of the other things you have on your plate, and simply rest in His Presence. Read His Word. Talk to the One who knows you better than you know yourself.
It doesn’t have to be long, but this time will fill you with a peace, a strength, a renewed purpose, and dare I say, even a joy to carry with you into this season. He knows all that is on your plate, He knows your heart, and He longs to meet with you.
Believe me, sister, the time spent with your Creator is not lost time, rather it is a precious time that we cannot afford to lose.